Before You Get Married

What if one conversation could save you years of heartbreak?

Most people spend months planning a wedding but only a few intentional hours preparing for marriage.

The truth is, many relationships don’t fail because love disappears, they fail because the right conversations never happened.

Before You Get Married is a practical, Christ-centered guide featuring 100 carefully crafted questions that help couples have the conversations that matter most before saying, “I do.”

From faith, purpose, finances, family, communication, emotional maturity, and conflict resolution to intimacy, parenting, and lifelong expectations, each question is designed to reveal compatibility, strengthen understanding, and encourage honest, meaningful dialogue.

To help you move beyond conversations, the book also includes an interactive Courtship Discernment Checkbook, enabling you to prayerfully evaluate your relationship, identify strengths, recognize potential red flags, uncover blind spots, and discern your next steps with wisdom and confidence.

Whether you’re single, dating, in courtship, engaged, mentoring others, or preparing couples for marriage, this book is designed to help you build a relationship founded on truth, wisdom, and God’s design for marriage.

Don’t just prepare for a wedding, prepare for a marriage that lasts.

Your future marriage is too important to leave to assumptions. Invest in the conversations that matter today, and give yourself the confidence to say “I do” with wisdom, clarity, and peace.